On that episode (SPOILER ALERT IF YOU HAVEN’T WATCHED THE THIRD EPISODE YET!), Carrie (Sarah Jessica Parker) attends the reading of Big’s will and learns that he’s bequeathed $1 million to Natasha—despite the fact that, as far as Carrie knows, Big (Chris Noth) and Natasha (Bridget Moynahan) weren’t in touch. Carrie is almost made crazy by this revelation and starts stalking Natasha by email, on Instagram, and ultimately, at her office. Natasha stonewalls Carrie repeatedly, only to accidentally run into her at an Upper West Side coffee shop. There, Natasha says she doesn’t know why Big left her the money, she doesn’t want it and she hadn’t talked to him since their divorce. In turn, Carrie suggests that maybe the money was his way of telling Natasha that he was sorry for what he’d done to her and put her through. But what, exactly, did Big put her through? If you’re a little fuzzy on your SATC history and couldn’t help but wonder what Big did to Natasha and why Big and Natasha got married in the first place, then keep reading for a refresher on Big and Natasha’s relationship timeline on Sex and the City.

How did Big and Natasha meet on Sex and the City?

In SATC’s penultimate Season 2 episode, “Twenty-Something Girls vs. Thirty-Something Women,” Carrie and her girlfriends travel out to the Hamptons and attend a swanky party on the beach that was planned by one of Samantha’s former PR assistants. There, Carrie unexpectedly spots Big canoodling with a gorgeous, twenty-something girl—even though they had broken up earlier in the season because Big had to relocate to Paris for work. “Hi, it’s a pleasure to meet you. I’ve heard so much about you,” Natasha tells a stunned Carrie. A moment later, Big explains to Carrie how he and Natasha met. “She’s this girl that I met in Paris. She works for Ralph Lauren in Europe,” he says. When Carrie asks Big how old Natasha is, Big replies, “I don’t know… 26, 27.”

When did Big and Natasha get engaged on Sex and the City?

In SATC’s Season 2 finale, which comes one episode after Carrie runs into Big and Natasha in the Hamptons, Carrie calls Big and invites him to a platonic, friendly lunch. After they’ve loosened up with a few drinks, Carrie encourages Big to open up about his new relationship with Natasha. He starts to speak, but then Carrie interrupts him and suggests they “don’t talk about our relationships until it gets really serious.” Big says in response, “Carrie… it is serious. We’re engaged.” Carrie is stunned for several reasons, including the fact that Big has “a problem with commitment” and that he told her he “never wanted to get married again, ever.”

How long were Big and Natasha dating before they got engaged on Sex and the City?

During the scene where Big tells Carrie that he and Natasha are engaged, Carrie says that they’d only known each other for five months.

Did Big marry Natasha on Sex and the City?

Yes. In Season 3, Episode 3 of SATC, Carrie and the gang are at brunch when they see Big and Natasha’s wedding announcement in The New York Times.

When did Carrie cheat on Aidan on Sex and the City?

Another way to ask this question is, when did Big cheat on Natasha? Answer: In the ninth episode of Season 3, soon after they all run into each other at Aidan’s furniture show. There, a drunk Big tells Carrie that his marriage isn’t working and that he’s “getting out.” By the end of the episode, Big has tracked Carrie down at a hotel she’s staying at while Aidan does work on her apartment and they sleep together. Their affair continues for a few more episodes, culminating in major drama when Natasha catches Carrie in her apartment, chases her down the stairs, falls and breaks a tooth.

How long were Big and Natasha married on Sex and the City?

If we’re judging by episodes rather than months, their nuptials lasted less than a full season: Carrie spotted their wedding announcement in the third episode of Season 3 and Natasha finds out about Big and Carrie’s affair in the eleventh episode. Next, 40 And Just Like That… Memes About Peloton, Mr. Big, and THAT Sex And the City Reboot’s Shocking Death

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